Sites We Love: Funny or Die

Comedy is SO IMPORTANT for Positive Social Change.  It brings everyone to a common level and makes difficult topics more easy to discuss.  Last night, Russell Brand was on The Last Word with Lawrence O’Donnell.  They were discussing Brand’s new book, Revolution. Brand is best known for his comedy and acting, but more and more he is being seen through an activist’s lens.  Revolution definitely places him in that category.

  • Tool: Find Comedy in your activism.

A major point last night though was that Comedy is necessary to get everyone to a level where we can come together to see real change.  It is how an actual, real working democracy will begin.  Project Kinect understands that we all must find common ground to produce the type of social change we need to thrive.  One of the best websites that uses comedy and satire is Funny or Die.

This last week, an Andy Bush directed sketch was uploaded to the website called Here’s How You’re Getting F***ed. It has Adam Shankman and Brandon T. Jackson in it and makes fun of how unjust to minorities our society is.  It is funny and makes room to have a better rounded conversation.

We listed that video below, as well as some other videos we feel really “Say Something”.  Happy Watching! #WAAI

Causes We Love: Marriage Equality

A large part of Positive Social Change is finding equality for all. A pressing source of inequality in our nation has been bans on same-sex marriage. Here is a brief explanation of what happened today and what the future holds. We also added some suggestions for change makers who are curious how to use their energy after this ruling.

 What Happened? The five states, Wisconsin, Indiana, Utah, Oklahoma, and Virginia, all had cases where Federal Judges ruled that same-sex marriage bans were unconstitutional. The opposing parties to this ruling then appealed their cases to the Supreme Court. The Supreme Court rejected all five cases. Therefore, the ruling sits on what the Federal Judges stated in the circuit courts.

First, in the near future, same sex bans will be dissolved in those five states. Second, all the states that each of those Federal Courts preside over will also dissolve any other same-sex marriage bans that may be present. That includes a total of 11 states. Thus, bringing the number of states where same-sex marriage is legal from 19 to 30.

Will the Supreme Court take this issue up some time soon? It is possible. Currently there are four other rulings from judges from the Appeals Courts on a Federal level that very possibly may be something the Supreme Court takes on. As for now, we must just wait.

What do you do as a change maker?

  • It is important to keep up on current events. Know what is happening and share accurate information.
  • Identify when you can safely correct other people who may be providing wrong information
  • Use your energy to work on other causes that growth can be seen. This rejection is a win and that should be celebrated. Until more development can be done though, don’t just spin your wheels, use that energy productively.

Sites We Love: Cities of Service

Cities of Service was created by mayor Michael Bloomberg.  With his direction, a coalition of cities was created along with commitments from volunteers declaring that a volunteer must also acknowledge they are a citizen.  From this coalition, non-profit organizations joined and created an even larger web of networks.  Today Cities of Service is nationwide and in full strength.  Check out the Cities of Service website to see if your city is involved.

Community Engagement is a Non-Stop Task

by Jenna Rhodes

 

Some people think that Community Engagement is one step in multi-step process for a project.  Build a team.  Check.  Set a timeline.  Check.  Engage the community.  Check.  Create a plan.  Check.  But it’s not nearly so simple.  Community Engagement is a collection of actions that can be found from the beginning of a project until the….well until forever.  Community Engagement doesn’t stop when you finish a project because building relationships is a continuous process that will lead into your next project and your next.  Relationships aren’t usually time bound.  The contacts that you make on the first project will be contacts that you will use throughout your time in your current position and possibly for your entire career.  Community Engagement is building your contact list, understanding the mission and vision of the organization that they represent, knowing what resources they have to offer, utilizing their expertise to move a project forward, gathering their opinions and impressions, and offering them your expertise and resources in return.

When engaging a community there are several things that can help the process:

1) Get out into the community and meet people – you can’t expect people or businesses to invest in your project, event, or idea if they’ve never met you.

2) Have lots of business cards – it’s not so much that they need YOUR info, but you need THEIRS and this is a great way to get it.

3) Have an organized system for collecting all of this contact info – an excel document can be a great tool to organize, sort, and utilize the rich resources that you’ve spent so much time collecting.

4) Communicate with your connections – an underutilized contact list is a waste of time and energy, stay connected by informing your newly formed network what you are doing, how it pertains to them, and how they can get involved.

5) Ask for referrals – you can’t possibly make every connection yourself, so ask your contacts to put you in touch with others who might have a stake in your project.

6) Follow up – if you say you are going to do something, do it.

Engaging a community is hard work that takes investments of time and energy.  And there will always be more people to meet.  This part of the process is ongoing.  I have been working on one project for more than a year and I made seven new contacts just this week while working on a seemingly unrelated project.  Never miss an opportunity to connect, either the work you are doing, or the work of your contacts to each other.  Be a connector and you will create a reputation for yourself as someone to know.

12 Things White People Can Do Now Because Ferguson

Janee Woods just wrote this article that was featured on Quartz.  It looks at how the actions taking place in Ferguson in response to the death of Michael Brown are changing the dialogue surrounding race in our country.  Specifically, it looks at the white advocate and how to be a better advocate while creating more advocates.   Finding our advocates is the most important step for positive social change. Here is a piece of the article.  You can check the rest of the article on Quartz.

As we all know by now, Michael Brown, an unarmed black teenage boy, was gunned down by the police while walking to his grandmother’s house in the middle of the afternoon. For the past few days my Facebook newsfeed has been full of stories about the incidents unfolding in Ferguson, Missouri.

But then I realized something.

For the first couple of days, almost all of the status updates expressing anger and grief about yet another extrajudicial killing of an unarmed black boy, the news articles about the militarized police altercations with community members and the horrifying pictures of his dead body on the city concrete were posted by people of color. Outpourings of rage and demands for justice were voiced by black people, Latinos, Asian Americans, Arab American Muslims. But posts by white people were few at first and those that I saw were posted mostly by my white activist or academic friends who are committed to putting themselves on the frontlines of any conversation about racial or economic injustice in America. And almost nothing, silence practically, by the majority of my nonactivist, nonacademic white friends—those same people who gleefully jumped on the bandwagon to dump buckets of ice over their heads to raise money for ALS and those same people who immediately wrote heartfelt messages about reaching out to loved ones suffering from depression following the suicide of the extraordinary Robin Williams, may he rest in peace. But an unarmed black teenager minding his own business walking down the street in broad daylight gets harassed and murdered by a white police officer and those same people seem to have nothing urgent to say about pervasive, systemic, deadly racism in America?

They have nothing to say? 

Why? The simplest explanation is because Facebook is, well, Facebook. It’s not the New York Times or a town hall meeting or the current events class at your high school. It’s the internet playground for sharing cat videos, cheeky status updates about the joys and tribulations of living with toddlers, and humble bragging about your fabulous European vacation. Some people don’t think Facebook is the forum for serious conversations. Okay, that’s fine if you fall into that category and your wall is nothing but rainbows and happy talk about how much you love your life.

However, I think the explanation is more complex and mirrors the silence of many people that I witness in real life. A lot of white people aren’t speaking out publicly against the killing of Michael Brown because they don’t see a space for themselves to engage meaningfully in the conversation so that they can move to action against racism. It’s not so much that they have nothing to say but rather they don’t see an opportunity being opened up for them to say something or to do something that matters. Or they might not be sure what to say or how to do it. They might have a hard time seeing a role for themselves in the fight against racism because they aren’t racist, they don’t feel that racism affects them or their loved ones personally, they worry that talking about race and differences between cultures might make things worse, or they think they rarely see overt racism at play in their everyday lives. And, sometimes, they are afraid. There’s a real fear of saying the wrong thing even if the intention is pure, of being alienated socially and economically from other white people for standing in solidarity with black people, or of putting one’s self in harm’s way, whether the harm be physical or psychological. I’m not saying those aren’t valid fears but I am challenging white people to consider carefully whether failing to speak out or act because of those fears is justified when white silence and inaction mean the oppression and death of black people.

Let’s talk about an active role for white people in the fight against racism because racism burdens all of us and is destroying our communities. And, quite frankly, because white people have a role in undoing racism because white people created and, for the most part, currently maintain (whether they want to or not) the racist system that benefits white people to the detriment of people of color. My white friends who’ve spoken out harshly against the murder of Michael Brown end with a similar refrain: What can I do that will matter in the fight against racism?

White people who are sick and tired of racism should work hard to become white allies.

In the aftermath of the murder of Michael Brown, may he rest in power, here are some ways for white people to become white allies who are engaged thoughtfully and critically in examining the situation in Ferguson and standing on the side of justice and equity. This list is a good place to start your fight to dismantle racial inequity and shine a light on the oppressive structures that lead to yet another extrajudicial killing of a black pers

1. Learn about the racialized history of Ferguson and how it reflects the racialized history of America.

Michael Brown’s murder is not a social anomaly or statistical outlier. It is the direct product of deadly tensions born from decades of housing discrimination, white flight, intergenerational poverty and racial profiling. The militarized police response to peaceful assembly by the people mirrors what happened in the 1960s during the Civil Rights Movement. 

2. Reject the “he was a good kid” narrative and lift up the “black lives matter” narrative.

Michael Brown was a good kid, by accounts of those who knew him during his short life. But that’s not why his death is tragic. His death isn’t tragic because he was a sweet kid on his way to college next week. His death is tragic because he was a human being and his life mattered. The Good Kid narrative might provoke some sympathy but what it really does is support the lie that as a rule black people, black men in particular, have a norm of violence or criminal behavior. The Good Kid narrative says that this kid didn’t deserve to die because his goodness was the exception to the rule. This is wrong. This kid didn’t deserve to die because he was a human being and black lives matter.

Click here for the rest of the list.

Causes We Love: Empowering Allies

Every marginalized community needs to know who their allies are and how to empower them.  Empowerment can only happen with patience and education. Patience is necessary for following new allies through the journey of becoming an ally. They may need time to learn the tools and vocabulary necessary to being a powerful ally.  This process often requires changes in the new ally’s behavior so patience is needed for that as well.

Education is a process and goes hand in hand with patience.  There must be different forms of education in order to best meet the learning needs of new allies.  Also, a list of resources and tools must be readily available for assisting new allies. For new allies, guidelines should be presented so they can visualize how best to be helpful and advocate for the marginalized group.  University of Missouri Kansas City has an excellent list of guidelines for becoming an ally.  This list is specific to being an ally for the LGBTQ community, but if can easily be adapted for other types of marginalized groups.

It may not be obvious to all, but the largest marginalized community in the world is women.  Men must learn how to advocate for women because men are the most powerful allies when fighting harassment, poorly created and hateful legislation, and basic equality issues. A cartoon recently created by Robot Hugs does an excellent job of illustrating what women go through and turning that into ways men can be allies and not perpetuate the problem.  Take some time on Robot Hugs page.  WE LOVE ROBOT HUGS! Here is a teaser of the cartoon.

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Additionally, organizations and corporations can become allies in this still male dominated world.  We sometimes do not recognize that it is happening when these large groups are being allies, but it happens. If we recognize it, then we become better allies.  Project Kinect believes we are all involved (#WAAI) and this is true when advocating for any marginalized community.  Here is an excellent example of a larger organization being an ally for women.  Thank you Buzzfeed!

Monday Spotlight: Selflessness

Last week was the premiere of a new show on ABC called You Deserve It.  This show allows someone to play a game show and win money for a loved one who they feel deserves it.  To see this put on prime time television and having regular people being the ones responsible for giving these great sums of money is an extremely phenomenal thing.  This got me thing about being selfless acts and looking at the rate of selflessness we are as a society.  We are constantly full of selfless acts when it comes in front of us.  This is volunteering with a club, donating money and food to a food drive.  We tend to forget about these selfless opportunities when we are in the middle of our lives.  Part of my goal with Project Kinect is to work on that and make it a reflex on when an opportunity to be selfless comes up.

I was looking through different blogs to get inspiration on this post and while I was on Serene Journey, I came across this post on ideas for random acts of kindness and the author stated it very clear on how we can get absent from a continued selfless routine.

“As we go about our day, it’s easy to become consumed by our own reality walking around with blinders on completely unaware of what’s going on around us. It’s a little frightening to take stock of how modern conveniences have already put us out of touch with other real living, breathing, human beings. ATM’s, self checkouts, vending machines, and computers (email, instant messaging etc…). There is a tendency to become a little self-absorbed and selfish. Don’t get me wrong I welcome change and advancement I just think we’re losing touch with each other.”

My thoughts of what I wanted out of Project Kinect really comes through with this excerpt.  Because of this, I feel that it is beneficial to share the suggestions from this blog: Selfless Acts-Do Something Nice to Restore Faith in Humanity.

  1. Cook a meal. I do this occasionally for my family (mom, dad and sisters) if they are coming home from holidays or a weekend away. I do it so they don’t have to. Trick is to not expect a dinner waiting for you when you return from holidays and to truly be ok with it.
  2. Pay it forward. Occasionally I will pay for the car behind me in line at the drive thru. Obviously I’m not going to break the bank, but a cup of coffee or two isn’t going to break me and it just might make their day.
  3. Donate.In the spirit of uncluttering and organizing donate items that are still in good shape and that could be useful to someone else. We routinely fill boxes with items from around the house that we no longer need and drop them at the nearest thrift store or Salvation Army Depot. It makes it easier to get rid of items if you know they will go to another good home and not just in a landfill somewhere.
  4. Volunteer. This is a biggie. Volunteer your time, services or expertise to an organization that really needs your help. My husband is a computer programmer and volunteers his time and expertise to a non-profit organization by creating and maintaining their website. I really enjoy photography and well…practice makes perfect so I volunteered at a non-profit organization to take pictures at their various events. This freed up the organizers to focus on the event and they knew that everything was still be captured.
  5. Do something nice. It’s usually the little things that have the biggest impact. This may sound a bit odd but each and every morning in the winter I start the car for my husband. We live on the Canadian Prairies and it’s COLD!  So getting into a warm car when it’s –45C is a lovely thing!
  6. Be courteous. Our society seems to be forgetting a bit of common courtesy or consideration for others. A real simple act of courtesy is to just hold the door for someone. Whether they are struggling with shopping bags, lugging strollers and children or just exiting the store behind you, simply hold the door and let them through. It doesn’t hurt to smile as you do!
  7. Listen. Lending an ear to someone who just needs to talk is one of the best things you can do. You don’t always have to try and solve the problem (if there is one), just listen. Sometimes just talking about things without being judged can make a world of difference to someone’s day.

I feel that because it isn’t in our normal routine to consciously do these things routinely, it is good to find inspiration in other people’s stories.  These stories, whether it is that feel good warm fuzzies or just plain guilt, get us thinking more in the correct direction and pushes us to taking action.  We must remember that nothing will change for the better if we all don’t get involved.  While I was looking for different examples of selfless acts, I came across this story at RenseThis story shares how one person helped an old woman with the installation of her carpet.

Please feel free to share with me selfless acts of kindness that you see in your daily routines.  Feel free to leave a comment or email me at gregg@projectkinect.com.  As I begin to close up the first year of Project Kinect, I am putting together other people’s stories and these emails would be great additions.